Monday, June 11, 2012

Speaking to people with accents.

Friday Luke and I went to happy hour with a group of FAO and IFAD volunteers and interns. There were people from the US, Finland, Italy, Spain, France, a few different African countries, middle eastern countries... it was kind of incredible to watch. Everyone else knew each other, so at least at first I just got to sit back and watch. When two people would meet each other, there was a really interesting interaction figuring out what language to speak with each other. Usually when talking with an American, non-Americans would speak English. But when the American could speak French or Spanish or Italian sometimes they would use that. I saw a girl from Finland and a girl from China speaking English together. It made me feel so incompetent! I need to learn another language, better than the meager French I have. Talking to people was difficult, even when it was in English. Trying to adjust to accents quick enough to have a conversation, and each accent being so different- I got lost quite a few times. And I'm a native english speaker! I can't imagine what it's like to be a Finnish speaker conversing in English with a girl who speaks English with a Chinese accent. I am so impressed by all these volunteers.

On Saturday Luke and I went to a party at the World Food Program to end the UN's Africa week celebration and it was SOOOOO far away. By so far I mean a 10 minute tram ride then a 10 minute train ride. I'm spoiled with only travelling short distances (other than the long flight here).

We got there a little early and sat around not knowing what to do. Almost everyone else there knew each other and was also just sitting around. There were a lot of African women in gorgeous dresses with big head wraps on, and a dj who played ridiculous things like obscure Mariah Carey. After about an hour the bar opened up and we grabbed a bottle of wine, and made friends with a frenchman named Georges and his wife Christine! He works for WFP and it was incredible talking with him- he was place dropping like crazy and managed to do it in a way that did not seem precocious at all. He's lived in east Africa, and west Africa, and Paris, and Marseille, and vacationed all over the place. Christine was half Italian half Dutch. They both spoke excellent English, and had really interesting accents. We talked a lot about how complicated it is to speak to someone even in your own language when they have learned it somewhere else. George mentioned a man from Laos who learned French from a north African French speaker. I had been struggling to understand even an Italian who learned to speak English in England- so my own language but the layers of accents are so strong!

When the party finally started there was a buffet of African food and a fashion show, where the participants mostly danced.



There was a drum and dance show, and afterward the whole party just turned into a dance party. It was a really surreal experience, we felt so out of place but everyone, including all the important people like ambassadors, just danced. It was wonderful!


We finished the night by clubbing in Monte Testaccio with two American girls who work at FAO, then had a laaaaazy Sunday.







Saturday, June 9, 2012

Trastevere

While Luke and I are in Rome we're living in Trastevere, a neighborhood southwest of the Tiber. Up until about 20 years ago it was mostly a blue collar Italian neighborhood, but now there are a whole lot of international students and tourists around at night. The whole neighborhood is GORGEOUS, winding cobblestone roads, tiny restaurants, bougainvillea, and street performers. I was totally shocked when we tried to go out to dinner at 9pm on a Tuesday night, and had difficulty getting a table anywhere! The cafes were all packed, we finally ended up waiting a few minutes for a table at a restaurant close to home. Almost every night of the week the tiny streets are so crowded with people taking walks, shopping, cafe hopping, that to walk anywhere you just have to assimilate to the crowd pace.

Piazza Santa Maria in Trastevere is about a three minute walk from the apartment and features la chiesa Santa Maria in Trastevere from about 200AD, an octagonal fountain, and extraordinary people watching. During the day there are school children in groups walking around, Romans walking their dogs, and huge groups of tourists going to the church. At night the square is lit up and all the cafes get full pretty early. Street performers set up shop, my favorite is a guy who spray paints beautiful pictures of the colosseum. There are no open container laws in Italy so people will bring wine or beer and sit around the fountain to drink. There are quite a few accordion players and small bands, my favorite is upright bass, accordion, and classical guitar.

And the food is delicious! This was Luke's lunch today for 5Euro.



Thursday, June 7, 2012

Ancient Rome


I had a huge day of sight seeing yesterday! And like the fool I am… I put on sunscreen before I left, and forgot to put it in my bag. So I got quite burned yesterday. Lesson learned.

The apartment has a shelf of books people have left here, mostly Italy/Rome guidebooks, but a few surprises like a Danielle Steel and the Diary of Anne Frank. My favorite book so far as been Frommer’s Rome day by day. It’s tiny enough to carry, has maps, and has day tours planned out depending on what you’re interested in. There’s the impossibly rushed “Best in One Day” where the traveler would hit 15 of Rome’s most well known (and busiest) spots. There are mapped out neighborhood walks for areas like Campo de’ Fiori and the Jewish Ghetto & Tiber Island. There are special interest tours such as “Baroque Rome”, “Romantic Rome”, and “Underground Rome”. Yesterday I walked one of these for Ancient Rome.

I started at the Teatro di Marcello, a theater in the Jewish ghetto used for plays and concertos in the first century B.C. The theater is actually still used for concerts occasionally! Maybe we can go to one while we’re here… but I suspect they’ll be really expensive. The theater itself inspired the design of the Colosseum, so it really look like a smaller version. Apparently the upper levels are still inhabited as apartments!


I walked from the theater on Via di Monte Caprino, an old road that winds its way up Capitoline Hill. According to my handy guide book, this is the road the Gauls used when attempting to storm the Rome’s capitol in 390 B.C. The sacred geese of Rome tipped off the Romans, and the Gauls were defeated. The road itself was beautiful. It was lush, green, and just had a feeling of antiquity. The modern road beneath was loud and crowded and full of exhaust from the massive buses of tourists, but once I stepped up onto the ancient road it was quiet and calm.


The road leads around Capitoline Hill and ends at the piazza del campidolglio which is flanked by the Capitoline museums and the monument of Vittorio Emmanuelle II. I sat in the palazzo for awhile and people watched. The piazza was designed by Michaelangelo- NBD.
On the piazza, ate next to this dude.

Next I walked around the outside of the Forum. You have to pay to get in, and I am trying to wait to do pay things until Luke and I can go together. Surprisingly, you can see a good amount of the forum without actually going in! Especially the Arch of Septimius Severus- which of course makes me think of Harry Potter.



I walked down Via dei Fori Imperiali and it was awful. The road itself is wide and crowded. It was created by Mussolini and built over the sites of ancient Roman ruins. There were men selling tourist trap crap every couple feet who would wave an umbrella or hat in your face (maybe I should have gotten one of those…) The bright side was the ruins of Trajan’s market and Caesar’s forum on one side of the road, and the Colosseum at the end of the road! 
Trajan's market


I walked around the Colosseum but didn’t go in. It was so packed with tourists! I can’t even imagine how long people were waiting in line. The arch of Constantine is right next to the Colosseum and I spent more time looking at that than the Colosseum itself.


Next I walked through sweaty crabby crowds of tourists waiting for buses to the Circus Maximus. Very cool to imagine chariot races there (I need to see Ben Hur) but it’s basically just a big field. I don’t think I even took a picture.

I finished by seeing the Terme di Caracalla, or the Baths of Caracalla. They were beautiful! Built in 212 A.D., they were HUGE. I was really struck by how tall the walls were, and tried my hardest to picture what it looked like before all the marble was stripped away. There are mosaic floors and wall decorations that can still be seen. It was another breath of fresh air- no huge crowds, nobody haggling me to buy anything, no car noise.


Luke met me after he finished work and we walked past the Colosseum and had a sandwich from his favorite sandwich shop. It might be the most delicious sandwich I've ever had... Hungarian salami, pecorino romano, sundried tomatos, and pesto. I wish I had gotten a picture of the shop! It was a tiny deli run by two older italian men and it sold almost twelve varieties of salami, other meats, cheeses, and pickled olives packed to order, and wine. There was a picture on the wall of what the shop used to look like from the early 1900s. We took the sandwich and walked to the Angelicum where Luke went to school when he lived here during college. It was beautiful and we sat in the gardens for awhile, totally removed from the city. We spent the rest of the night sitting in a cafe in Trastevere, and it was perfect.


Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Day Four


Already starting my fourth day in Rome, and already falling in love with the city.

The rest of my trip was uneventful, except my luggage got lost. It was left in Paris when I had a super short layover. My bag is supposed to be delivered today, I am going crazy without it! I just want to have my own toiletries and wear a different outfit and shoes! Thank God I brought a change of clothes and underwear in my carry on.

The first night I was here Luke took me out to a delicious dinner of bruschetta, pasta, and wine, then after dinner we got gelato and walked around. Let me tell you, ricotta and pear gelato might be my new favorite flavor in the world! We went on a long walk through almost the entire city and saw the Forum, the Colosseum, the Trevi fountain, Piazza Navona and the fountain of the four rivers, the Pantheon, Bernini’s angels on the bridge by Castel San’Angelo… and there’s probably something I forgot in that list. It was incredible! That you can just walk to all these places (I’ll admit I was exhausted afterward) and there are people everywhere no matter what time of night… I loved it.

We’ve been eating and drinking very well! A margherita pizza is 3euro (under $4) and so far both I’ve had have been big! There’s a tiny café by the apartment that sells cappuccino for 0.9euro – yep- ninety euro cents. They also sell bottles of Peroni for 1.50euro that you can “take away”. Last night we each got one then sat on the piazza Santa Maria in Trastevere watching the street performers and people walking around.

Now that Luke is at work during the day I’m trying to get myself on a schedule. So far here’s what it looks like.
-9AM wake up slowly, get dressed
-9:30 walk to the café, drink a cappuccino and watch the old Italian men yell at each other while they play cards. Read a book, maybe eat a cornetto.
-10:30 go to the tiny fruit and vegetable shop and get fresh produce for dinner. Possible stop in the cheese and salami shop, or wander through local boutiques.
-12 lunch, work on Italian lesson, do dishes, take a shower, take a siesta.
-1:30 go sight seeing for the afternoon, and meet Luke when he gets off work at 5pm.

Sounds pretty good huh?

 Piazza Santa Maria in Trastevere by night

The ceiling of Santa Maria sopra Minerva

The Pantheon on the left looking into the square

Piazza Navona and Bernini's fountain

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Travel time


Sitting in O’Hare airport, at my gate (K7), with 2 hours before boarding. That’s okay, I’d always rather be early than late. I get mildly anxious while travelling alone, so being early is key! Now I just need to fly Chicago to Paris, Paris to Helsinki, Helsinki to Rome, then take a train from the airport to Trastevere where Luke will pick me up.

The past week and a half has been insanity. I had two parties last week, because we had a going away party, and Luke threw me a surprise graduation party! It was the first time I’ve ever had a surprise party thrown for me, and I was so surprised! After choir on Wednesday we went to Spyhouse under the guise of me studying and Luke working on his law review petition. After about 2 minutes, Luke tells me how much he wants to go get a beer. I’m like, “but we’re studying…” and he says that we’ll grab a beer, then go back to studying. I was trying to concentrate so I didn’t even find that suspicious. For the next 45 minutes he was pestering me about when we could go, when I’d get a break in the AMTA standards of practice I was reading. So I finish and he says he wants go to the Lowry, to which I ask why don’t we go somewhere with a happy hour deal and he tells me he wants oysters. He has never eaten oysters. Neither have I. Not the most logical craving… but I brushed it off. When we get there a sign at the hostess station is directing us to the left, but he starts bringing me to the right which is blocked off, and I try to get us toward the bar area, then I see a long table of people, and the first person I identify is Ashley Scott, wearing a party hat. And then someone starts singing “Graduation” by Vitamin C, and it’s all a blur but I’m confused and Luke had to explain, “you didn’t have a graduation party so I threw you one!” It was SO wonderful, almost all the choir kids were there, and I got a couple cards, and may have shed a quick tear. So thank you all! I did not expect it at all, and you make me feel so loved.

On Monday when Luke got back from his cabin up north, we moved a ton of my stuff and stored it at his parents house (thank you x1000000000!), then I spent the night taking a practice exam for the music therapy board exam. Stress was abundant. On Tuesday morning I woke up early to take the exam all the way out in Blaine. Surprise surprise, the test was MUCH harder than the practice exam! I actually spent a good part of the exam thinking I wasn’t going to pass, and periodically stopped to give myself a pep talk. But I passed! I am now, Laura Roche, MT-BC (Music Therapist- Board Certified). Changing my resume felt awesome. It was almost surreal that day I kept thinking about how HUGE it is that I’m now a music therapist, not a music therapy student. But of course I had to move for the rest of the day, so I didn’t get to celebrate or even relax.  The rest of the day Tuesday Luke and I moved all my furniture and I did some cleaning. Wednesday morning I woke up early, cleaned more of my apartment, babysat all day, ran errands, picked up Luke, and drove to Chicago.

This whole time Luke was petitioning for law review which meant that Monday night he only slept 3 hours, Tuesday night he pulled an all nighter, Wednesday he worked all day, and during the 7 hour drive he got to sleep for the first time since probably Sunday. And he still took the time to help me move, help me clean, and tolerate me being a stressed out mess.  So Luke, THANK YOU. And huge congrats to him for getting a 4.0 second semester of law school! Smarty pants =-)

Now I just need to take three planes and a train. Meanwhile, I’ll reading National Geographic, all the wonderful books my mom got me today, and people watch like it’s my job. 

Sunday, December 4, 2011

Seven weeks down

My time at Park Nicollet is flying by! I am definitely loving it, but things have gotten heavier.

The day before Thanksgiving I got to the office and listened to our voicemail, and the first three messages were notifying us of the deaths of three different people I had seen. I feel like so far I've been really good about separating work from my personal life, and managing my emotions. But one of these deaths hit me really hard. I would see this man outside of work, and saw his progression from ambulatory and alert to non-responsive in bed. I wish I could figure out why this hit me so much harder than anyone else I've seen. I think it could really inform my self-care, but of course I can't put my finger on it.

I've been doing a lot more leading too! With support from Gretchen or Dawn. I still really need to work on building my repertoire! There's just so much music I need to be familiar with and it's incredibly overwhelming. My standards list is at about 100 songs (pulled from the Park Nicollet standards) and needs to double.

In happier news, I bought Stella a laser pointer and she can't handle herself. 

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Weeks 3-5

It's been much too long since I've posted! Let's just say I've been distracted...

Not to sound too much like a broken record, but I adore internship. I adore the incredibly kind people on the hospice team, my three supervising MTs, my three co-interns, all the clients we work with, the check out people in the cafeteria....

A few highlights:
1. Julie and I co-lead a hospice session with a new pt. At rounds the next week her nurse and social worker were talking about how they hadn't even seen the pt. open her eyes, and I got to chime in that when she had music therapy she had her eyes open almost the whole time.
2. Julie and I co-lead an impromptu vocalization group at Struthers, with virtually no planning. And it went really really well!! We got some good stories out of two clients in particular who rarely say more than yes/no.
3. I've seen my very favorite 103 year old another two times. Yesterday she spent about two minutes thanking me for "coming to see an old lady" and jabbering about how much she likes to sing, and likes where she lives, and likes when we visit....etc.

On Thursday I get to lead my first music appreciation group at Struthers, so I'm planning tonight!

I really feel so lucky to get to spend every day around people who show me how good people can be.